what respect means to me and the general importance of respect.

-Examples of respect being a two way street.
-Importance of respect in a professional setting or work place.
-If possible, respect explained within rank structure in the US Army….why it is important to respect ALL ranks, your subordinates and superiors.
-This is a disciplinary paper assigned to me, a Sergeant, by a Sergeant First Class. I explained to him that I needed to speak to our Capitan before I completed his tasking to explain that performing that task was demeaning to my rank and others with the same rank or above. Unfortunately my request was perceived as disrespectful and now I need a 5,000 word essay on the above topic.